I’ve never seen a post warning sapphic girl about the kind of girls to avoid

winterywitch:

schuyvvalker:

e-pluribusunum:

Avoid girls who:

-Don’t think bi girls are sapphic or thinks bi girls are inherently cheater/gross.

-Thinks transwomen aren’t women.

-Thinks being in the closet is cowardly.

-Trie to or does out you without your permission.

-Doesn’t tip the waiter/waitress. 

-Says she isn’t “like other girls” 

-Says you aren’t femme/butch enough.

-Cause you “sensitive” or “crazy” when you get upset.

-Forces PDA in situations where you feel uncomfortable/unsafe.

-This is already pretty much stated but, avoid TERFs like the plague.

-Shames femininity (i.e. wearing makeup/dresses, etc.)

-If she’s white and uses racial slurs in any way.

-calls other girls bitches/sluts/whores.

-Who call their ex crazy/bitch/slut/whore.

-Thinks calling them out on this stuff is homophobic.

Feel free to add to the list

-if shes non-white and uses racial slurs that don’t apply to her own race

-makes you feel bad or ashamed for liking the things you like

-doesn’t support you in your passions, whatever they may be

-tries to force her own spiritual/religious beliefs on you or shames you for yours

- ever, ever, EVER makes you feel like you are obligated to bend your boundaries/comfort/safety for her desires

- makes you feel like you’re not good enough and not valid and not worthy of respect and a voice

- who, if you are a dfab nonbinary person, tries to force you to be a cis woman

- who, if you are bi, tries to force you to be a lesbian

- expects you to be sexually available for her even if that just means listening to her go on and on about her kinks

- treats you like you’re depriving her of something she deserves if you’re scared of or hesitant about sex

- treats you like a watered down, failed lesbian if you are bi